Speed Seduction

1. Preparation

• Be sure to look good, feel confident and try to be in charge during conversation.
• Relax, smile, speak slowly and clearly, with a deep voice tonality.
• Make good eye contact.
• Be sensitive to how she responds and modify your approach accordingly.
• Do not spend more than 10 minutes with any girl if you have not been given any signal to keep going.

2. Approaching and Making Them Interested

• Wherever you are, don't wait for more then three seconds to begin.

• Say “Hello” or "Excuse me" and then ask for information or directions or start conversation on situation you are both in (music, whether, traffic, etc.).

• Request or offer assistance in doing something.

• Introduce yourself and offer her hand with open palm facing slightly up, let's say at 45 degree angle.

• When you take her hand to shake it, keep holding on as you continue to talk to her, looking straight in her eyes.

• Tell a joke, get her laughing.

• Get her alone.

3. Starting Conversation

Ask open-ended questions: "How do you like …". Here is an example:

1. Do you like living here in [whatever-the-place-is-called]?
2. What do you like to do for fun? Do you have a lot of guys chasing you?
3. I don't mean to sound strange or anything... but what qualities do you look for in a guy?

This is where you shut up and listen. Encourage her to speak more by asking more questions in similar manner: "What's important to you in a relationship?"

4. Laughing and Touching

• Tell her a joke or a funny story, laugh and try to make her laugh.
• Every time you laugh or say something funny, put your hand on her hand ort shoulder or waist or thigh. Be gentle, but authoritive.
• If she says something, say "Can't hear you:", lean forward as if you aren't hearing her very well and touch her arm or back.

5. Finishing

Stop the conversation early and say something like this:

• "I have to go now, but I've really enjoyed this conversation. Why don't you give me your number and we can talk again".

• "Have to leave, but why don't we continue this somewhere else and see how much we can enjoy each other's company?".

• Suggest a lunch, coffee or date.

6. Self-Defence: Accept “No” With Smile

• Never resist her words directly, rather say: "Your're right."
• "It is OK if you don't like cute guys like me, I understand."
• "I see you prefer to hide your joy, that's fine with me."
• "No problem,, if you buy me a drink I might give you a second chance."