INTRODUCTION
TRUST
in your relationship is necessary, for without trust a complete peace of mindand surrender to one another is difficult to obtain.
DEVOTIONto your partner allows you to lose yourself in the joy of your
partner; and the paradox is, you will find yourself in the joy.SECURITY
maintains a lasting bond of confidence for both of you. This acts as afoundation upon which to build to your highest degree of joy.
LOVEis the basis for all real joy.
TIMEto experience your sexual joy must include the following criteria. Neither
partner should be tired. Both partners must be fresh and agreeable to the experience. A minimumPLACE
time period.
LIGHTING
something that both of you must agree on in order to maintain the
proper milieu. You may want to look at your partner's body, but your partner may not want to beANOINT
TO MAKE PLEASANT AND EASY
element besides you and
your partner: MERH.
MERH
is a luxurious oil based lubricant formulated from ancient wisdom and
designed to liquify at body
temperature. The consistency of MERH comes from a blend which
provides the greatest sensitivity and a perfect lubricant for prolonged sexual
ecstasy. Generous
use of MERH is suggested so that your entire genital area is completely and
liberally covered
with MERH. Water based jellies and other lotions or creams will in no way allow
you to
experience prolonged sexual ecstasy the way MERH will. You will find no
substitute that can
maintain the milieu necessary for this total experience. Continued applications
of MERH
throughout the duration of your experience is recommended and necessary to
maintain its super
sensitizing effect. People who
at first oppose using a lubricant discover that the experience of
using MERH will change their doubts into adoration.You will always want to keep
the MERH
container closed between your experiences of sexual ecstasy, this will keep the
MERH clean.
Please note that cats are extremely attracted to MERH and will eat the MERH
directly from the
container, prefering it over even their favorite delicacy. Experience has shown
that MERH is
harmless to cats should they eat it.
There are a few other items necessary to complete the milieu. It is best to use
a private bedroom
for your sexual joys. Have on hand bath towels, hand towels, wash cloths and
drinking water or
the beverage of your choice.
CHAPTER THREE: BUILDING
THE FOUNDATION
This text
takes for granted that you
understand your own sexual anatomy and that of your
partner. See illustrations
A
and
B.
If this is NOT the case, then you will need to purchase a good
sexual anatomy book and become informed before you begin to experience this
ancient wisdom
of permanent sexual ecstasy. With open communication, go through an anatomy text
with your
partner. Allow your partner to educate you about the terminology and physical
location as
described in the sexual anatomy text. A hands on education is necessary. Using
the MERH, hold,
touch, massage, fondle and stimulate your partner as you both familiarize
yourselves with each
others sexual anatomy. Communication is necessary. You will never reach the
ultimate sexual
joy without communication and an understanding of your partner's sexual anatomy.
GENITAL
ORGANS, MALE AND FEMALE
requires that you become
acquainted with anatomy. After you familiarize yourself with anatomy, you and
your partner
need to begin by closely examining and locating the different features discussed
in your sexual
anatomy book. This will open communication and insure that both of you
understand where your
and your partner's sensitive areas are located.
STIMULATE
THE INNER GLAND which is
known
as the (G) spot. Much has been written about the (G) spot or an internal organ
which is located
about one to two inches inside the entrance to the female vagina. Most females
who are familiar
with their own anatomy and having masturbated know the location of this spot and
can easily
guide their partner to its location.
STIMULATE
THE GLAND EXTERNALLY for
like the female, the
male has a (G) spot known as the prostate. This gland is very sensitive to
stimulation. The gland
can be stimulated externally or internally. Refer to your sexual anatomy text
for the location of
where to stimulate this gland externally and internally.
EXERCISE
recommended to enhance
your sexual joy. Kegel exercises strengthen the
pubococcygeal muscles in both the male and female. This muscle can be
strengthened through an
exercise involving contraction of the muscle. The pubococcygeal muscle will be
referred to as
the (PC) muscle throughout the text. Both male and female should practice
contracting, holding,
then relaxing the (PC) muscle. Begin with ten contractions, then increase to
twenty and more.
Strengthen the (PC) muscle daily until you can contract, hold and relax for at
least one hundred
consecutive times. The male should also practice raising and lowering his testes
to gain control
over these internal muscles.
CHAPTER FOUR: PERSONAL
STIMULATION
MASTURBATION
plays an important role
in reaching permanent sexual
ecstasy. To begin, each partner should allow the other to demonstrate what makes
them feel good
and what sexually stimulates them to orgasm. Communication is paramount, for
without
communication your partner will never know how to make you feel good. The female
should go
first, demonstrating to her partner how she touches herself and brings herself
to an orgasm. Then
the other partner does the same.
The next time you practice the ancient wisdom, begin as before, but take the
hands of your
partner and have them assist you in reaching your orgasm. This will familiarize
both of you with
yourselves and your partner's feelings and sensitivities, and educate you both
into a union of joy.
SEXUAL
JOYS TO MAKE YOU HEALTHY
means that
there is a great health benefit to practicing this art of permanent sexual
ecstasy. Both partners
must realize that self stimulation is good and healthy for each other as well as
your experience
together. You will recognize a significant change in well being and physical
health. Your energy
level will greatly increase with the regular practice of permanent sexual
ecstasy. However, self
stimulation does not replace sex with your partner, it just enhances your sexual
relationship. Self
stimulation feels good and is good for you. It allows you to know and show your
partner what
feels good to you. Remember, your partner does not know what makes you feel good
and you
probably do not know what makes your partner feel good. If you don't know what
feels good,
these exercises will bring you to that understanding.
ATTENTION
is the most important
factor. Remember, "Where your attention is, is
where you are." It is critical that you practice keeping your attention in the
feelings and
sensations as you learn to stimulate yourself to orgasm. As you keep your
attention in the
sensations of your stimulation, you will automatically progress to an orgasm.
After one orgasm
you will learn to give yourself multiple orgasms.
PERSONAL STIMULATION OF
THE FEMALE
What you will practice
is different than your male partner. Your male partner is learning to have
multiple orgasms while holding back his ejaculation. You will learn how to relax
and have
multiple orgasms.
As you touch your body for delights and joys, begin to explore all the areas of
your genitals.
Keep your attention in your feelings with NO THOUGHT. Find those areas of your
genitals,
inside and outside, that feel good.
MERH
is generously applied to
your total genital area. Apply it to your anus,
your perineum, your major and minor labia, inside your vagina, your clitoris,
your pubic bone
and lower abdomen. Remember, thoroughly lubricate your genitals and while doing
so begin to
feel the joy of personal stimulation.
As you explore and stimulate yourself, communicate to your partner how it feels,
what parts of
your genitals feel good, and tell your partner how you are touching them. Stroke
and touch
yourself, keeping your attention in the good feelings until you come to orgasm.
If at this point
you feel comfortable, continue on to further orgasms. Always communicate to your
partner how
you are feeling and how you are touching and stroking yourself.
One of the greatest inventions of modern times is the vibrator. Many females
have taught
themselves to orgasm only with a vibrator. There is nothing wrong with this,
although, you will
want to eventually learn to have orgasms without a vibrator. For in the highest
states of
permanent sexual ecstasy, you will not need a vibrator. You will have hours of
continuous
orgasms with your partner without the use of a vibrator.
There will be extensive information on stimulation of the female to follow later
in this text.
When you have gained the ability to have several orgasms from just using your
hands, you are
ready to move to the next stage.
PERSONAL STIMULATION OF
THE MALE
Both partners must
realize that self stimulation is good. Personal stimulation allows you to show
your partner what feels good to you. Remember, your partner does not know what
makes you
feel good and you most likely do not know what makes your partner feel good. If
you don't know
what feels good, these exercises will bring you to that understanding.
The most important factor is your attention. Remember, "Where your attention is,
is where you
are." It is critical that you practice keeping your attention in the feelings
and sensations as you
learn to stimulate yourself. As you keep your attention in the sensations of
your stimulation, you
will automatically progress toward an erection.
MERH
is generously applied to
your total genital area. Apply it to your anus,
your perineum, your scrotum, your penis, your pubic bone and lower abdomen.
Remember,
thoroughly lubricate your genitals and while doing so begin to feel the joy of
personal
stimulation.
EJACULATION
is an function you must
learn to control. After you achieve
erection, try to keep the erection as long as possible without ejaculation.
Bring yourself close to
orgasm without ejaculation several times, five to ten. SLOW your stimulation,
reduce pressure
and SHORTEN your strokes as you approach the point of ejaculation.
Experiment with different methods of stimulation. The old up and down of the
hand can be
adapted to new and greater stimulation. Instead of holding your penis thumbs up,
turn your
thumb down forming a ring with your thumb and index finger. Then pull from the
base of your
penis on the shaft drawing towards the glans. You can use both hands from the
center of the shaft
towards both ends, base and glans. There are many variations of stimulation. You
should try all
of them as you communicate to your partner how it feels and how you like it
best.
Remember, your goal is to NOT ejaculate. By NOT ejaculating, you will prolong
your joy and
soon reach a permanent state of sexual ecstasy and continuous orgasm. This state
is greatly
superior to a single ejaculation and orgasm. As you discover this joy, you will
want to spend
much time there. Soon you will be able to keep an erection for thirty, forty,
sixty minutes and
even longer. As you practice this technique of keeping an erection, the time of
your joy will
continue to extend.
STIMULATE
THE INNER GLAND and
carry
yourself to higher levels. Now is the time to insure that your attention is in
the feelings of your
joy. Keep your attention within the feelings of joy, no thought is necessary.
Just keep the
attention in the delights and joy. You can stimulate yourself to even higher
levels by stimulating
your EXTERIOR PROSTATE spot, which is similar to the female (G) spot. Do NOT
ejaculate
as you rhythmically press firmly on the perineum, between your scrotum and anus.
At this stage you will experience the beginning of orgasms without ejaculation.
Use rhythmic
pressure on your exterior prostate, the (G) spot, with varied speed until you
find the appropriate
rhythm to bring the greatest joy. If you begin to ejaculate, try pressing extra
firmly on the
exterior prostate to stop ejaculation. You may find this very pleasurable.
THE
SCROTUM, TESTES PULL
prevents you from ejaculating. This
ancient method is ideal for this purpose. The testes must be close, next to your
body to allow
ejaculation. You will experience great delights and joy as you or your partner
gently and firmly
pulls your scrotum, thus pulling the testes away from your body. Later,
palpitation of the testes
will be discussed. Remember, the use of MERH is critical. This allows smooth and
gentle
manipulation of the scrotum for the scrotum pull. Experiment with this until you
have discovered
the right pressure, firmness and rhythm, then show your partner. This pressure
and firmness will
change at different stages of delight. Communication is very important for you
to reach the
greatest heights of permanent sexual ecstasy.
The scrotum testes pull is accomplished by grasping the scrotum at the base of
your testes,
between your thumb and index finger, forming a ring. When you near orgasm, pull
firmly
downward away from your body. During your stimulation, rhythmically pull lightly
on your
scrotum to increase your joy. Practice the raising and lowering of your testes
through (PC)
muscle control. You will notice that as you relax your testes and allow them to
drop away from
your body, the urge to ejaculate will subside. Notice that when you draw them
close to your
body, the urge to ejaculate is increased. This exercise will help in the control
of preventing
ejaculation.1
It may take several
weeks of practice to build up the necessary muscular control to hold an
erection for more than half an hour. Once you have reached this goal, you will
be able to keep an
erection for as long as you desire.
Your key to success is that your attention must be in the feelings of joy, NOT
IN THOUGHTS.
Once you have mastered this basic stage of erection for at least one half hour
without ejaculation,
you can go on to the next stage of practice with your partner.
REPEATED
EJACULATIONS is the next
step. Stimulate
yourself without ejaculation for twenty to thirty minutes and then ejaculate.
Immediately
following ejaculation, begin to stimulate yourself again. You may need to
increase the
stimulation more the second time, but you will be able to maintain an erection
and then have a
second ejaculation.
RETENTION
OF SEMINAL FLUID simply
means to hold in
your seminal fluid and prevent it from discharging. This is accomplished by
squeezing your (PC)
muscle just as you approach ejaculation. As you approach ejaculation, remove
your hands from
your penis, hold your breath and squeeze your (PC) muscle. You will notice that
you still will
have an orgasm, but you will retain your seminal fluid.
When the contractions from your orgasm have stopped, begin to stimulate yourself
again. As you
stimulate yourself, your arousal will move to even higher stages. When you
arrive at your next
orgasm, it will be stronger than your first.
After practice of the retention of seminal fluid, you will discover that you
will soon be able to
experience and delight in ten to fifteen orgasms. This additive effect allows
you to have greater
joy with each orgasm.
LENGTHENED
SEXUAL ORGASM will be
achieved after several
weeks of practicing to strengthen your (PC) muscle. You will notice that you
have begun to gain
new strength and conformation of this muscle. Now is the time you are ready to
begin
lengthening the duration of your orgasms. Start counting the number of
contractions you
normally have with an orgasm. It will be between five to fifteen contractions.
Begin your stimulation until you have kept from ejaculating for at least thirty
to forty minutes.
As you reach the stage of ejaculation, contract your (PC) muscle and allow just
a small amount
of semen out. Continue to gently and slowly stimulate your penis as you push out
and contract.
Do this as long as you can to increase the number of contractions and lengthen
the duration of
your orgasm.
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CHAPTER FIVE: SEXUAL
COMMUNICATION
"Amen,
come and play in my waters,
now and forever more."
-- She
COMMUNICATION
is the intercourse of
minds and thoughts which sets in
motion physical experiences. Take turns watching your partner masturbate and
talk about it as
you do. Listen to your partner tell you what feels good, how to touch them, and
observe.
In later sessions, watch what your partner does and practice on your partner
exactly what he or
she has shown you. You need to achieve a level of proficiency greater than the
self stimulation
your partner is able to achieve on his own or her own. Keep practicing until
both of you are able
to stimulate each other better than each of you can stimulate yourselves. You
will want to tell
your partner what needs to be done. Tell each other what is happening and how
each stroke and
touch feels. Make sure you guide your partner's hands, showing firmness, speed,
and motion.
Enjoy your feelings, and keep your attention in the feelings as you instruct
your partner.
Most men feel that they already know how to stimulate their partner. This is far
from reality.
Most women don't know how to stimulate men and really make them feel good.
Chances are that
neither of you know much about making the other feel good and both of you know
very little
about making yourselves reach any level of sustained orgasmic joy. Enjoy
watching your partner
pleasure themselves. Talk about it while you are doing it and after you are
finished. Remember,
communication is critical.
LOVING
FOREPLAY to make
yourselves feel like
children. Have fun, enjoy yourselves, laugh, giggle. Some men and women want to
rush into sex.
To be successful with the ancient wisdom, you must both realize that each of you
has to relax
and touch the other.
LOOK
INTO THE EYES of your
partner and touch them -- not just
into their physical eye but into the window to their soul. Find your partner
inside and there, make
a spiritual bond. Practice looking into your partner's eyes and bonding with
their spirit.
GENTLY
TOUCH THEIR BODY SKIN
for all people
need to be touched. The area of the skin is vast and by gently touching all the
skin of the body, it
sets the stage to begin your stimulation of the genital area. Remember, do not
rush to stimulate
the genital area until your partner is ready.
SHARED
STIMULATION begins with
both of you lying on your
sides, resting on a pillow, and facing each other's genitals. This leaves your
hands and arms free
to stimulate your partner. The female uses one hand to stimulate the glans and
shaft of the male
penis, while her other hand pulls the male's scrotum and presses his external
(G) spot. The man,
in turn, stimulates the female's clitoris with one hand and her labial lips and
vagina with the
other. DO NOT forget the MERH.
Stimulate each other for thirty to forty minutes and communicate as you do so.
Talk to each other
about your feelings and tell each other what feels good. This type of
stimulation should be
practiced at least three to four times weekly.
CHAPTER SIX: CAUSE AND
EFFECT
"Every cause has its effect; every effect has
its cause; everything happens
according to Law; Chance is just a name for Law not recognized; there are
many fields of causation, but nothing escapes the Law of Destiny." --
Summum
This ancient aphorism
contains within it a great
knowledge which when understood will allow
you and your partner to apply this principle to reach the highest states of
permanent sexual
ecstasy. Cause "comes in and out of bond" with Effect; all EVENTS are between
the cause and
effect. Cause and Effect draws its NATURE from the copulation of CREATION. In
this
statement there is condensed a wealth of knowledge.
CAUSE
AND EFFECT is the
process where one partner causes the
other to have joy. The partner having the joy is known as the effect. The
paradox of cause and
effect is that a reciprocation takes place automatically when the relationship
in cause and effect
becomes a union.
You will notice that as you stimulate your partner, you will begin to feel the
same feelings as
your partner as the euphoria of your partner's joy returns to you. So at this
point you should
decide who will be the giver of joy and who will be the effect.
Remember to take turns making sure there is a balance of joy giving and joy
receiving. The
partner receiving the joy must be allowed to be totally free to enjoy your
stimulation. With no
thought, they turn their body over to you as they just lay there being delighted
and pleased by
you. It is most successful if the man pleases the woman first and then the woman
the man.
CHAPTER SEVEN: GIVING
THE FEMALE JOY
"...and Amen suckled Her breast with the lips of the stars.
His mouth was the womb of heaven,
His tongue the light of the sun.
As Her milk flowed like the river of life into His mouth,
He awakened Her into Permanent Sexual Ecstasy."
-- SUMMUM
SEXUAL
JOY POSITION BETWEEN THE TWO LEGS
will be discussed here
and it will
apply to both the male and female. This section should be read by both partners.
After the initial
foreplay, the female lies in the supine position (on her back) with the male
sitting up, legs
extended. See illustration
B
of chapter five. The sitting
partner's back is supported by pillows
against the headboard of the bed or wall. The lying partner's legs are on top of
the sitting partner,
and her genitals are moved to a distance which makes it comfortable and easy for
the sitting
partner to touch. The sitting partner needs to be comfortable with his back
resting against the
pillows. The lying partner needs to be comfortable, knees bent, head on a pillow
if preferred.
MERH
is applied liberally.
Warm it in your hands before putting it on your
partner's genitals. The complete genital area of both partners should be
liberally anointed with
MERH, including the anal area, inside the vagina, labial lips, pubic bone and
lower abdomen.
The same areas of the male should be liberally anointed. Too much MERH is better
than too
little. A towel is usually placed under both of you to catch the excess MERH. Be
generous with
the MERH.
It is taken for granted at this point that you are both SHAVED. Again, remember
the ultimate joy
will only be felt when you are shaved, using the MERH and applying the ancient
wisdom of
sexual delights and joy. Gently stimulate the external genitals. You want to
avoid starting at the
most sensitive areas first. Start with the pubic area by pushing the skin upward
in gentle circles
with the palm of the hand.
PULLING
THE LABIAL LIPS is
achieved by holding the
labial lips between the side of the index fingers and thumbs. Gently pull the
lips away from the
body in a slow motion. Release and allow them to slide back between your
fingers. This is
identical to the scrotum pull. Close observation of your partner's expression is
needed. Pull and
hold. If the female moves her body toward you, you are pulling too hard. If she
pulls away,
gently increase the pressure. Change rhythm, experiment until you find the
greatest joy for your
partner. The whole genital area should be stimulated and aroused before you
begin to stimulate
the clitoris. The observant male will quickly notice that the female clitoris is
a miniature penis.
With this in mind, you will recognize that the clitoris can be stimulated in a
manner similar to the
penis. Remember how sensitive the penis is. Now remember that the same number of
sensitive
nerve cells which are in the penis are all compressed into the clitoris. BE
GENTLE, for every
female's preference for clitoral stimulation is unique. Some prefer to have just
the clitoral shaft
stroked and not the glans. Others do not want the clitoris touched at all.
Sometimes the clitoris is
more sensitive on either the left or right. You need to build a relationship
with your partner's
clitoris like you have with your penis.
MASSAGING
THE CLITORIS will cause
the clitoris to change colors
and shape. Pay close ATTENTION to your partner's clitoris. You should gain an
understanding
of bringing your partner to orgasm. All females are different. You need to
proceed with
stimulation and communication -- touching, pushing, pulling, rubbing your
partner to orgasm.
Do not move too quickly from one technique to the next. Spend several minutes
before you
change from one type of stroke to the next. Be observant of your partner's
reaction. She will let
you know by the movement of her body. She will push closer if she wants more
pressure and
pull away if the pressure is too hard.
The labial lips will fill with blood and swell. The area around the vagina will
turn red or pink.
The entire genital area will change. She will make sounds rather than speak as
she begins to
reach the higher levels of arousal. Her facial expression will let you know what
feels good. As
she presses her genitals into your hands, you will know she wants more
stimulation. Sense how
your partner feels and follow her previous instructions.
OBSERVE
YOUR LOVER'S BEHAVIOR
for enough cannot be
said about this. This silent communication is wonderful. You will become
very skilled at knowing what pleases your partner just by watching her reactions
and responses
to your stimulation.
INCREASING
AROUSAL will mount once
you have developed a basic
stroke that your partner enjoys. Use this stroke for no more than ten to twenty
strokes, then fall
back to a relaxing stroke. A resting stroke can be slower, lighter, or with less
pressure (maybe
not too direct on the clitoris). As your partner's arousal increases, she will
let you know by
moving her genitals closer to your hand. By her expressions and movements,
however slight they
may be, she is telling you she wants more stimulating strokes -- ten to twenty
rising strokes and
three to five relaxing strokes. Try different patterns in the count to find what
is best for your
partner. Always remember to keep your attention on her and her reactions.
At anytime during the stimulation of the clitoris, you can place one or two
fingers inside your
partner's vagina. Gently touch the opening of her vagina around the (PC) muscle.
This will
increase her arousal while you are stroking and massaging her clitoris. By the
time she is ready
to have an orgasm, you should have one or two fingers inside the entrance to her
vagina.
PREVENTING
THOUGHTS is important.
While you are
stimulating your partner, she may have some unwanted thoughts. The best way to
stop unwanted
thoughts is to focus the attention. Whenever you find yourself thinking anything
other than the
feeling and joy of your partner's stimulation, put your attention back on the
feeling of the joy you
are experiencing. As long as you focus your attention on the joy and the
stimulation, it is
impossible for unwanted thoughts to come to your mind. If you find thoughts
coming in, just
easily redirect your attention back to the pleasurable feelings and stimulation.
When your
attention is within the joy, that is where you are. Allow yourself to relax into
the arms of the
experience of delights and sexual ecstasy.
SEXUAL
CONTRACTION AND PUSHING OUT CONTRACTIONS
are exercises you will
master through practice.
Using the (PC) muscle, contract the muscle and then relax. This will take away
tension and also
help increase your arousal. These exercises were discussed earlier as Kegel
exercises. To build
arousal, tense the (PC) muscle and then relax the (PC) muscle.
Now that you are able to contract and relax the (PC) muscle, you must learn to
push out on the
(PC) muscle. This is also known as a bearing down contraction. There cannot be
enough said
about the practice and the understanding of these two types of contractions. See
illustration
C.
showing the push out contraction. Gaining strength and control over the (PC)
muscle is very
important for sexual ecstasy. Both the male and the female should practice
strengthening the
(PC) muscle by Kegel exercises (the contracting, holding and releasing of the
(PC) muscle).
BREATHING
is a discipline that
requires some discussion. History is replete
with books and teachings on the topic. So much has been said about breathing
that the issue of
breathing and breath control has had every aspect of life tied to its control.
Breath control in this context can be seen as a form of relaxation. As your
level of arousal
continues to rise, you may become tense. It is normal to breathe about eleven
times per minute.
As you rise higher in your sexual arousal, you may tend to hold your breath or
breathe less. Now
if you start putting too much of your attention into controlling your breathing,
it becomes
difficult to keep your attention in feeling the joy of ecstasy. However, you may
slightly direct the
control of your breathing to assist in increasing your joy. Some people prevent
orgasm by
holding their breath. When muscle tension is high, you may experience yourself
holding your
breath. To relax this tension, let some of your attention be with your
breathing. Continue feeling
your contractions and joys while letting your breath out and in. Don't forget to
breathe.
You will notice that if you keep your breath rhythmic, it will assist you in
your orgasms.
Alternate between breathing in for seven seconds and then out for seven seconds.
Repeat. Keep
the tension of contraction in the genital area and let go of the tension in the
rest of your body.
RHYTHM
is the music of sexual
delights and ecstasy and can be mastered very easily.
As discussed before, the strokes come in sets like waves in the ocean -- a
number of large waves,
then some small waves. Using a firm quick action, stroke ten to fifteen times
with the strokes one
second apart. Then change to a softer slower stroke, stroking two to five times.
You will find the
rhythm that will best suit your partner. Touching and stroking for both partners
is like music.
Your choice of music is your sexual delights and joys.
Female Anatomy
Pushout Contractions
THE
VAGINA is now ready to
be stimulated as your partner continues to rise higher, then
levels out, then rises higher in her levels of joy. Your partner should be
having contractions
about one second apart as you have been stimulating her clitoris. Reduce the
pressure on her
clitoris. She may even want you to stop touching her clitoris totally. Lighten
your touch of the
clitoris and begin to move one or two fingers in and out of her vagina.
At these first stages of orgasmic contractions, move your fingers in and out of
the vagina like a
thrusting penis. This is the time for your attention to be on the (G) spot.
Remember, it is located
one to two inches inside the vagina, just behind the pubic bone. Look at the
anatomy drawing
again to familiarize yourself with its location. The (G) spot feels firmer than
the rest of the
vaginal wall. The more your partner is stimulated, the firmer her (G) spot
becomes.
Vaginal stimulation of your partner as she begins to have her orgasms will cause
her to become
more aroused. She will climb higher in her joy. It is important to remember not
to stimulate the
(G) spot before orgasm. Stimulation of the (G) spot before orgasm may cause the
opposite effect
you are looking for.
This stage is similar to the male. Once he has an orgasm, the glans of the penis
become very
sensitive. So lightly touch the clitoris after your partner has started to
orgasm.
LENGTHENED
SEXUAL ORGASM is what
you want your partner
to experience. Now that she is having orgasmic contraction, you must continue to
provide her
with a lavish degree of stimulation. Find the areas most sensitive inside her
vagina that gives her
the greatest amount of joy. There may be several areas but do not forget the (G)
spot.
The rhythm you initiated as you stroked and massaged her clitoris should be
employed inside the
vagina. Give ten to fifteen strokes about one second apart, then several softer,
slower, gentler
strokes. Increase and then decrease the pressure. This stimulation within the
vagina initiates the
deep contractions of permanent sexual ecstasy.
The type of initial contraction generated from stimulation of the clitoris is an
exterior, superficial
contraction as opposed to the internal, deep muscle contraction of the uterus
and other areas of
the vagina. The deep contraction will last longer and will be more pleasing to
your partner. You
will recognize the difference between the exterior contractions and the deep
pelvic and uterus
contractions by the change in conformation of the vagina.
Once your partner begins to have these deep contractions, she has started into
the continuous
orgasmic stage of ecstasy. Her vagina feels as if it is enlargening or opening
up with the exterior
contraction. As she reaches this new stage of deep contraction, she will begin
her push out
contractions. The area of the vagina will seem to fill up and close off. The
uterus will push
toward the opening of the vagina as if the vagina were shortening and closing
from within.
When her vagina draws back and opens up, you must lighten your touch until she
starts the push
out contraction. As she begins the push out contractions, increase your speed
and pressure. This
will assist her to rise higher and reach a new level of ecstasy. She will move
her pelvis closer to
you signaling that she wants more stimulation. Again her vagina will draw back
and you will
need to slow and lighten up. Then increase the pressure and speed to take her to
an even higher
level. Continue this cycle taking your partner to a permanent state of sexual
ecstasy.
When she has reached the stage where she does not climb anymore, return your
attention to her
clitoris. Use the same rhythm as you used previously (ten to fifteen strokes one
second apart and
then three to five slower, lighter strokes). This will cause her to have more
intense contractions.
At this point, return your attention back to the vagina. Stimulate the (G) spot
with the same
rhythm as before. Watch for the push out contractions. This is when she rises to
even higher
stages of ecstasy. Continue to stimulate your partner in a manner which will
cause her to have
continuous surges of push out contractions.
When the joy levels off and the rising of joy stops, go directly back to the
clitoris and stimulate it
with the same rhythm. As soon as she begins to have contractions again, go right
back to
stimulating the vagina and the (G) spot. See illustration
D.
As you continue this back and forth process of stimulation between the vagina
and the clitoris,
the time where she is not rising with joy will shorten. These resting periods
will become shorter
and finally disappear. Once these resting periods have ceased, she has reached
the next major
stage of permanent sexual ecstasy.
At this major stage of ecstasy, your partner most likely will not want to speak
or may not be able
to speak. You will be able to communicate by watching her expression and
listening to her
sounds. Her body may seem out of control, with her head tossing, limbs jerking
and other body
movements. At this stage of ecstasy, she is out of control and lost in her
feelings. She is not
thinking, just feeling the waves of orgasms rushing through her body.
She is in your control and she will let you take control of giving her ecstasy.
When you are in
control and the stimulation is just right, she will not move close to you or
away from you. She
will be totally in the ecstasy of her feelings and joy.
Normally, it takes about one half hour to reach this advanced stage of orgasmic
ecstasy. After
about forty five minutes of stimulation and push out contraction, she will begin
to reach into the
blissful ecstasy stage. This stage has no level points or drawing back. It is
characterized by
continued rising, constant ecstasy and delightful joy. This permanent stage will
continue on for
hours.
You and your partner are capable of enjoying the final rising stage for as long
as you have the
time. Two, four, eight, even twelve hours of ecstasy is common when both
partners become
practiced in permanent sexual ecstasy. This is a timeless stage where hours will
pass unnoticed.
PERMANENT
FEMALE ECSTASY is your
goal. After
one half to one hour of stimulation, the female will reach a level of permanent
sexual ecstasy. In
this state she will be totally under your control. She will be in internal
orgasmic ecstasy. It may
be impossible for her to speak. She may only be able to gesture or move her body
in an
uncontrolled manner. The male, as the stimulating partner, may keep her at this
stage for as long
as he chooses. After both partners have been stimulated to this stage, you most
likely will want
to advance to intercourse for the ultimate union of permanent sexual ecstasy.
See illustrations
D
and
E.
Both the male and the female will feel sexual orgasms for days after
experiencing a long session
of permanent ecstasy. The female will begin to orgasm almost immediately the
next time she
begins to experience your stimulation. The experience of sexual ecstasy will
make you happier,
healthier and more relaxed in life.
TRAINING
EXERCISES are important
and will enable the female to build
confidence in her ability to achieve permanent sexual ecstasy before beginning
intercourse. Your
sessions, during which she is stimulated, should be at least forty minutes or
longer until she is
having continuous push out contractions. You and your partner should train at
least two to three
times weekly. This training will develop the female's ability to have continuous
orgasms. These
orgasms can be as close as one second apart and last for as long as you
stimulate her.
CHAPTER EIGHT: GIVING
THE MALE JOY
SEXUAL
JOY POSITION BETWEEN THE TWO LEGS
will be discussed here
and it will
apply to both the male and female. This section should be read by both partners.
After the initial
foreplay, it is now the male's turn to lay in the supine position (on his back)
with the female
sitting up legs extended. See illustrations
A,
B
and
C.
The sitting partner's back is supported by
pillows against the headboard of the bed or wall. The lying partner's legs are
on top of the sitting
partner, and his genitals are moved within easy reach of the sitting partner.
The sitting partner
needs to be comfortable with her back resting against the pillows. The lying
partner needs to be
comfortable, knees bent, head on a pillow if preferred.
MERH
is applied liberally.
Warm it in your hands before putting it on your
partner's genitals. The complete genital area of both partners should be
liberally anointed with
MERH, including the anal area, inside the vagina labial lips, pubic bone and
lower abdomen.
The same areas of the male should be liberally anointed. Too much MERH is better
than too
little. A towel is usually placed under both of you to catch the excess MERH. Be
generous with
the MERH.
It is taken for granted at this point that you are both SHAVED. Again, remember
the ultimate joy
will only be felt when you are shaved, using the MERH and applying the ancient
wisdom of
sexual delights and joy. Now that the female partner has been pleasured into
ecstasy, it is the
male's turn to experience the joys and delights of sexual ecstasy. During the
entire period of your
time together, it is best that each of you gives the other equal attention, for
balance is important
in bringing you both to the state of permanent sexual ecstasy.
Most men have never been educated in sexual joy. They believe they are involved
in a
performance, something they do to their partner. When most men first read this
ancient wisdom,
they find it difficult to believe it to be true. With close attention to the
text and help from his
partner, the male can also experience permanent sexual ecstasy.
Males deserve the experience of constant sexual delights and constant orgasms.
The male should
learn to accept being pleased into ecstasy. The male should totally relax and
allow himself to be
the effect rather than the cause. He must allow his female nature to come
forward at this time. It
is pleasurable for the female to give the male joy and vice versa. Remember,
permanent sexual
ecstasy at its highest level cannot be reached without a harmonious union
between the partners.
STIMULATING
THE PHALLUS is
necessary, for it is a
myth that the male can automatically have an erection without penis stimulation.
If the male's
attention has been focused on stimulating the female, he will not have had the
opportunity to get
aroused. Penis stimulation by the female is the first step in taking your
partner to the sexual joys
of ecstasy.
Review the section on personal stimulation of the male. Remember what he told
you -- what
makes him feel good and makes him rise from level to level in arousal. Usually
you begin with
firm strokes. The most sensitive part of the penis is the glans, the head of the
penis. The glans is
like the female clitoris. It is very sensitive to stimulation.
STRETCHING
THE PHALLUS begins by
using the thumb
and forefinger of each hand to form two rings around the shaft of the penis.
Make one ring at the
base of the shaft and the other ring just above the base. Squeeze the ring at
the base firmly and
stretch the penis with the other hand. Milk the shaft of the penis with rhythmic
strokes as you
draw the blood into the glans.
There are variations of stretching and milking the penis. You can begin by
forming the two rings
in the center of the shaft. Another variation is to form one ring at the base of
the shaft and the
other just below the glans. Then push the ring just below the glans down towards
the base. You
will notice the glans swell up as you draw blood into it by milking the shaft.
This sensation is
very pleasurable to the male.
As the penis becomes firm and hard, use more fingers to add more stimulation.
Experiment with
stretching the penis. Let your partner guide you. This technique of stretching
the penis will
lengthen the penis over a period of time. Some males have attested to gaining
one to two inches
in length.
When the penis has hardened to complete erection, it is time to add more
stimulation. The next
area of the male you want to stimulate is the scrotum and testes. Remember to be
gentle with the
testes for they are very sensitive. Being so sensitive, the testes will bring an
enormous rise in
arousal and joy. Proper testes stimulation is one of the key factors in bringing
the male to
permanent sexual ecstasy.
TESTES
STIMULATION is an art in
itself. When stimulating the testes,
paying close attention to your partner's expressions and body movements is
critical. Begin your
experimentation by having your partner show you how much pressure and firmness
to give him.
The scrotum pull has been discussed and this is where you should begin. Have
your partner hold
your hand and show you how firm to squeeze and how hard to pull.
As you rhythmically stroke the penis, pull on the scrotum with rhythmic motion.
This action on
the scrotum leads to the next level of stimulation to the testes. See
illustrations
A,
B
and
C.
As
you pull on the scrotum, allow the testes to slip through your fingers. Increase
the frequency of
pulls and continue.
TESTES
PALPITATION provides the
highest level of stimulation to
the testes. This is obtained by: holding the scrotum with the testes in one
hand, then slightly
squeezing while pulling downward at the same time, allowing the testes to slip
through your
fingers in a palpitating motion. The amount of firmness is very important. Watch
your partner
closely. Sliding and palpitating the testes should be rhythmic as you stroke and
pull on the penis.
Palpitate once each second or even quicker depending on how your partner reacts.
As arousal
continues to rise, you may want to slow down or speed up. Experiment with the
rhythm and
speed. This technique of palpitating your partner's testes through your hand
will bring the highest
levels of ecstasy.
Direct stimulation to the glans of the penis will take your partner even higher
in his arousal. Now
you must prevent him from ejaculating. One technique that will do this is the
scrotum pull. Pull
and hold the testes away from his body while you stimulate the penis. It is very
difficult for the
male to ejaculate without his testes being close to his body. Squeezing the
glans of his penis with
your hand as you pull on his scrotum will cause him to rise higher.
STIMULATE
THE INNER GLAND for most
females and males do not know that stimulation of the prostate is extremely
effective for male
orgasm and arousal. The male prostate is similar to the female (G) spot. You,
the female partner,
should take control and experiment with stimulating the male prostate. Remember
to
communicate, for the male prostate is extremely sensitive, just like the
clitoris. You should
experiment with exterior and interior stimulation. Use plentiful amounts of MERH.
The more
lubrication the better for this super sensitive gland.
Stimulation of the inner gland is achieved by applying pressure to the exterior
(G) spot of the
male. Trimmed fingernails are important. With two fingers, press firmly just
above the anus.
Rhythmic pressure in an upward stroking manner will bring permanent sexual
ecstasy to your
partner. While stroking and pulling on his penis, press the external prostate in
a slow, firm,
rhythmic caress. When you press too hard, your partner will draw away. When you
do not press
hard enough, he will move closer. Experiment with the pressure and the rhythm
until you find
the stimulation that brings your partner the greatest joy and ecstasy. Rhythm is
the key factor.
Just as your male partner learned the rhythm of stroking and massaging your
clitoris, use this
same method on his prostate and penis. Experiment with stroking the penis while
you gently
stroke the prostate, then try alternating. Find out what feels best to your
partner.
As you raise the arousal of your partner, he will reach a point of initial
orgasm. Reduce your
stimulation and allow him to pass through an initial clear fluid orgasm without
ejaculating. This
point is important in that now he is under your control. You must put your
attention on his
expression and movement to insure he does not ejaculate, but passes on to a
higher level of
stimulation.
If you and your partner agree, you can stimulate the prostate directly by
placing one finger gently
inside his anus. About two to three inches up inside, behind the base of the
penis, you will find a
firm spot. Stroke the prostate rhythmically as you stroke the penis. This direct
stimulation is
extremely exciting and may cause him to ejaculate. Do not let him ejaculate, it
will end his
continuous orgasm. So direct stimulation to the prostate is optional.
PREVENTING
EJACULATION is primarily
up to the
female partner at this stage of sexual ecstasy. However, this does not mean that
the male should
not help and communicate to his partner that he is about to have an ejaculation.
The male can
help prevent ejaculation in several ways: by squeezing the (PC) muscle, by
relaxing, by mental
control, and by drawing away from the stimulation. As the male draws away from
you, lighten
the touch, slow the stroke and maybe even stop touching him momentarily.
As you both learn how to prevent ejaculation, there will be times you falter. Do
not become
disturbed about this. Continue to practice prevention. Remember, the longer the
male can prevent
ejaculation, the greater joy he will have. By ejaculating, the male cuts short
his joy of permanent
ecstasy. With practice, the male will learn to prevent ejaculation indefinitely.
He will discover
the joys and delights in continuous sexual joy and ecstasy and prefer not to
ejaculate.
PERMANENT
MALE ECSTASY is your
goal. After
one half to one hour of stimulation, the male will reach a level of permanent
sexual ecstasy. In
this state he will have the ejaculation reflex totally under control. He will be
totally consumed in
internal orgasmic ecstasy. It may not be possible for him to speak. He may only
be able to
gesture or move his body in an uncontrolled manner. The female, as the
stimulating partner, may
keep him at this stage for as long as she chooses.
It is important to remember that at this stage, the male needs a variation of
different types of
strokes. If you don't vary the strokes, he will ejaculate or lose his arousal.
Rhythm is the key. Do
not change from one stroke to another too quickly, but vary the rhythm of the
strokes to keep his
arousal up and prevent him from ejaculating. He will continue to rise in his
ecstasy as long as
you continue to stimulate him. After both partners have been stimulated to this
stage, you most
likely will want to advance to intercourse for the ultimate union of permanent
sexual ecstasy.
TRAINING
EXERCISES involve taking
your partner to the highest level of
sexual ecstasy, close to ejaculation, as many times as possible in a forty
minute training session.
This can be from ten to forty times. As you practice sexual ecstasy, you will
discover that he will
stay at this high level longer. As you continue to practice sexual ecstasy, he
will reach a point
where the level of ecstasy will stay very high and you will only need to stroke
him gently. You
can change the rhythm and type of stroke to maintain his high level of ecstasy.
CHAPTER NINE: COPULATION
"As above, so below; as below, so above." --
Summum
This principle embodies
the idea that there is always a
correspondence between the laws and
phenomena of the various levels of being and life. This aphorism, "As above, so
below; as
below, so above," gives one the means of solving many a mysterious paradox and
hidden secrets
of nature. There are levels beyond your knowing, but when you apply the
Principle of
Correspondence to them you are able to understand much that would otherwise be
unknowable
to you. This principle exists at the various levels of the material, mental and
spiritual universes
and is of universal application. This principle has been considered to be one of
the most
important mental instruments by which humankind is able to set aside the
obstacles which hide
the unknown from view. Just as a knowledge of the principles of geometry
empowers the
astronomer to measure distant suns and their movements while seated in an
observatory, a
knowledge of the Principle of Correspondence empowers you to reason
intelligently from the
known to the unknown. Correspondence draws its NATURE from the copulation of
CREATION. Studying the monad, one is studying the universe.
Using the Principle of Correspondence, you can examine why the union in sexual
intercourse
(copulation) results in the highest state of sexual ecstasy possible. For
example, in observing the
monad, ("As below"), physicists have discovered that two infrared photons can be
joined
together to make one ultraviolet photon, ("as above"). The energy state of the
one ultraviolet
photon is greater than the sum of the energy states of the two individual
infrared photons.
This same principle from ancient wisdom applies to the male and female. When the
male and
female are joined as one in a union of permanent sexual ecstasy, the energy
state and ecstasy
level of their "oneness" is greater than the sum of their individual energy and
ecstasy levels.
SEXUAL
INTERCOURSE is your
union into oneness. Individual
stimulating of the female and male to this high level of sexual ecstasy is a
technique you will
want to continue to practice. If time allows, you will ALWAYS want to practice
individual
stimulation prior to intercourse. It is almost impossible to reach the highest
levels of permanent
sexual ecstasy during intercourse without first individually stimulating to the
highest possible
ecstasy level. You will want to practice individual stimulation several times
weekly or as often as
time allows. The best love making is obtained by following the teachings of the
ancient wisdom.
Bring your partner to a high level of sexual joy by individual stimulation and
then join as one.
By using this higher law against the lower, you will be able to rise in flight
to a union of
permanent sexual ecstasy. You and your partner may have your favorite position
for sexual
intercourse already. Make sure you avoid gymnastics and keep your attention and
energy on
pleasing your partner and yourself.
UNION
OF PERMANENT SEXUAL ECSTASY
is achieved through an
appropriate position. This position incorporates several factors which make it
most conducive for
experiencing one to twelve hours of bonding in a state of sexual bliss and
ecstasy. See
illustrations
A
and
B.
These factors are important to remember in that all of them are necessary
for this union of ecstasy.
EQUAL
PARTICIPATION is
facilitated by this position. The female may rock
her pelvis, push back and forth with her body and move from side to side. This
enables her to
position the male's penis so that it strokes and touches her in the places and
manner she most
enjoys. She can draw the male's body close against her with her legs, pressing
the male's scrotum
and testes on her vulva. She can stimulate herself either with a vibrator or
with her hands. She
can also stimulate her partner with her hands while having intercourse.
The male in this position can thrust his penis into his partner's vagina while
having his left hand
free to stimulate himself or his partner. The male has shared control of the
penis depth and
positioning within the vagina. He can press deep within the vagina or use a
gentle rhythmic
pressing of the glans of the penis, opening and closing the entrance to the
vagina. The male can
press his scrotum and testes hard against the female vulva and pubis in a
rotating manner
bringing deep sexual ecstasy. He can use the right hand to stimulate the female
breasts or hold
and touch her at the bonding point.
RESTFUL
AND COMFORTABLE POSITION
is important for both
the female and the male.
The female is resting in the supine position (on her back), the male is resting
on his right side.
The female's left leg is bent and arched over the hip-waist of the male. The
male's right leg,
slightly bent, is under the females bent right leg. The right leg of the female
is resting on the
male's right leg underneath it. The left leg of the male is slightly bent and
resting on top of the
female's right leg. See illustrations
A
and
B.
JOINING
POINTS form a circle of
union. This circle forms a circuit for cycling sexual
energy to create the state of permanent sexual ecstasy. The right hand of the
male is holding and
pressing the union point on the anterior and medial deltoids of the female.. The
penis is stroked
in and out of the vagina. The energy flows in a cycle from the penis into the
vagina, up through
the body of the female through the chest, heart, head, and out through her left
shoulder. The
energy flows down the right arm of the male into the chest, heart, head, and
down through his
body into his genitals and from the penis again into the female.
The stroking of the penis and the vagina together drive and create the sexual
energy that is
pumped in the cycle through the partners' bodies.
EYE
CONTACT for sharing the
ecstasy at a spiritual level is possible in this
position. The female rests her head to the left and looks into her partner's
eyes, the window of his
soul. Looking into your partner's soul is very delicate and should be cultivated
with the greatest
of joy.
FREE
MOVEMENT WITH THE HANDS
gives
both partners a freedom to add stimulation to themselves or their partner at
anytime during
intercourse. The female can hold a vibrator in one hand while pulling the labial
lips up and back.
See illustration
D
of chapter seven. The male can
stimulate the anus, the vulva, the clitoris or any
other area of the female genitals with his left hand, or he can stimulate
himself.
EXPERTISE
is not just thrusting
the penis in and out of the vagina. The sensitive
areas within the vagina can be stimulated with direction from the female. At
different stages of
intercourse, different areas of the vagina are more sensitive. Follow the guide
of the female and
manipulate the rhythm and direction of the penis within the vagina.
The entrance to the vagina is extremely sensitive. Very short strokes of the
penis just inside the
vagina opening, followed by withdrawing the penis and allowing the vagina to
close, is very
arousing. Find the rhythm that is most pleasing to both partners.
Give ten to fifteen shallow short strokes followed by three to five deep
strokes. Practice the
technique of intercourse after both partners have reached a high level of sexual
ecstasy.
Technique comes with knowing what pleases your partner.
ORAL
LOVEMAKING can be a
reservoir of heavenly joy. If you haven't yet
included oral lovemaking as one of your skills, you'll find it as an another
vehicle to sexual
ecstasy. For those of you who are hesitant, or even for those of you who already
delight in oral
lovemaking, the following will be of benefit.
The female, when orally arousing her partner's penis, can elevate him to an
exalted level of
sexual ecstasy. With the male lying on his back, his head comfortable on
pillows, the female lies
at waist level on either side or kneels between his legs. In this position, the
female can orally
stimulate the penis while stroking the shaft concurrently with her MERH
lubricated hand. This
position also allows for manual stimulation of the scrotum and external (G) spot
with the other
MERH lubricated hand. The female needs to be sure to cover her teeth with her
lips for optimum
comfort on the penis. She should also create for herself comfort both in
physical position and
mental space.
Oral lovemaking can bring your partner to orgasm very effortlessly, so attention
must be given to
your partner's level of sexual ecstasy. To control the state of ecstasy, it may
be necessary to use
only one form of oral lovemaking at a time such as: lightly tantalizing your
partner's testes, in
your mouth, one at a time, using your lips to pull the testes with the same
motion as you do with
your hands when you palpitate them.
To heighten the state of sexual ecstasy, you may want to combine oral
stimulation on the shaft of
the penis with manual stimulation of the external prostate area or (G) spot.
This stimulation
consists of pressing either internally or externally, inward and upward as if
extracting secretions
from the prostate gland.
The male, when orally arousing his partner's genitals, can touch her so
delicately that it will send
her to the heights of sexual ecstasy. With the female lying on her back, her
head comfortable on
pillows and maybe even her buttocks elevated with pillows, the male lies at
waist level on either
side or kneels between her legs. See illustration
D.
Both hands are free to stimulate breasts or
other body areas.
Slow and gentle are the key words when orally making love to your female
partner. The warmth
of your mouth as it covers her clitoris and labia lips, the soft slow flicking
of your tongue in and
out of her vagina or the softness of your breath may be enough to leave your
partner floating in
ecstasy for minutes at a time.
As always, attention to your partner's response should direct the pressure of
your touch, the
quickness or slowness of your stimulation, or maybe even your own thoughts. If
your full
attention is not in your partner, if you too are not feeling the ecstasy of her
delights, she may feel
your detachment and withdraw, becoming less euphoric.
In this work the basic knowledge of Sexual Ecstasy from Ancient Wisdom, as
taught by the
Summa Individuals, has been given to you. These are the fundamental Sexual
Principles of
Creation. These are the working Sexual Principles, and it is left to you to
apply these Principles
for yourself.