Hey, I have a lot of respect for all you guys who like to eat pussy because
there are too few of you out there. And I'm not the only woman who says this.
Furthermore, some of you guys who are giving it the old college try are not
doing too well, so maybe this little lesson will help you out. When a woman
finds a man who gives good head, she's found a treasure she's not going to let
go of too quickly. This is one rare customer and she knows it. She won't even
tell her girlfriends about it or that guy will become the most popular man in
town. So, remember, most guys can fuck, and those who can usually do it
satisfactorily, but the guy who gives good head, he's got it made.
Most women are shy about their bodies. Even if you've got the world's most
gorgeous woman in bed with you, she's going to worry about how you like her
body. Tell her it's beautiful, tell her which parts you like best, tell her
anything, but get her to trust you enough to let you down between her legs.
Now stop and look at what you see. Beautiful, isn't it? There is nothing that
makes a woman more unique than her pussy. I know. I've seen plenty of them. They
come in all different sizes, colors and shapes; some are tucked inside like a
little girl's cunnie and some have thick luscious lips that come out to greet
you. Some are nested in brushes of fur and others are covered with transparent
fuzz. Appreciate your woman's unique qualities and tell her what makes her
special.
Women are a good deal more verbal than men, especially during love-making. They
also respond more to verbal love, which means, the more you talk to her, the
easier it will be to get her off. So all the time you're petting and stroking
her beautiful pussy, talk to her about it.
Now look at it again. Gently pull the lips apart and look at her inner lips,
even lick them if you want to. Now spread the tops of her pussy up until you can
find her clit. Women have clits in all different sizes, just like you guys have
different sized cocks. It doesn't mean a thing as far as her capacity for
orgasm. All it means is more of her is hidden underneath her foreskin.
Whenever you touch a woman's pussy, make sure your finger is wet. You can lick
it or moisten it with juices from inside her. Be sure, by all means, to wet it
before you touch her clit because it doesn't have any juices of it's own and
it's extremely sensitive. Your finger will stick to it if it's dry and that
hurts. But you don't want to touch her clit anyway. You have to work up to that.
Before she becomes aroused, her clit is too delicate to be handled.
Approach her pussy slowly. Women, even more so than men, love to be teased. The
inner part of her thigh is her most tender spot. Lick it, kiss it, make designs
on it with the tip of your tongue. Come dangerously close to her pussy, then
float away. Make her anticipate it.
Now lick the crease where her leg joins her pussy. Nuzzle your face into her
bush. Brush your lips over her slit without pressing down on it to further
excite her. After you've done this to the point where your lady is bucking up
from her seat and she's straining to get more of you closer to her, then put
your lips right on top of her slit.
Kiss her, gently, then harder. Now use your tongue to separate her pussy lips
and when she opens up, run your tongue up and down between the layers of pussy
flesh. Gently spread her legs more with your hands. Everything you do with a
woman you're about to eat must be done gently.
Tongue-fuck her. This feels define. It also teases the hell out of her because
by now she wants some attention given to her clit. Check it out. See if her clit
has gotten hard enough to peek out of it's covering. If so, lick it. If you
can't see it, it might still be waiting for you underneath. So bring your tongue
up tot he top of her slit and feel for her clit. You may barely experience it's
presence. But even if you can't feel the tiny pearl, you can make it rise by
licking the skin that covers it. Lick hard now and press into her skin.
Gently pull the pussy lips away and flick your tongue against the clit, hood
covered or not. Do this quickly. This should cause her legs to shudder. When you
sense she's getting up there toward orgasm, make your lips into an O and take
the clit into your mouth. Start to suck gently and watch your lady's face for
her reaction. If she can handle it, begin to suck harder. If she digs it, suck
even harder. Go with her. If she lifts her pelvis into the air with the tension
of her rising orgasm, move with her, don't fight her. Hang on, and keep your hot
mouth on her clit. Don't let go. That's what she'll be saying too: 'Don't stop.
Don't ever stop!'
There's a reason for that, most men stop too soon. Just like with cock sucking,
this is something worth learning about and worth learning to do well. I know a
man who's a lousy fuck, simply lousy, but he can eat pussy like nobody I know
and he never has trouble getting a date. Girls are falling all over him.
But back to your pussy eating session...There's another thing you can do to
intensify your woman's pleasure. You can finger-fuck her while she's enjoying
your clit-licking talents. Before, curing or after. She'll really like it. In
addition to the erogenous zones surrounding her clit, a woman has another
extremely sensitive area at the roof of her vagina. This is what you rub up
against when you're fucking her. Well, since your cock is pretty far away from
your mouth, your fingers will have to do the fucking.
Take two fingers. One is too skinny and three is too wide and therefore can't
get deep enough. Make sure they're wet so you don't irritate her skin. Slide
them inside, slowly at first, then a little faster. Fuck her with them
rhythmically. Speed up only when she does. Listen to her breathing. She'll let
you know what to do. If you're sucking her clit and finger-fucking her at the
same time, you're giving her far more stimulation than you would be giving her
with your cock alone. So you can count on it that she's getting high on this. If
there's any doubt, check her out for symptoms. Each woman is unique. You may
have one who's nipples get hard when she's excited or only when she's having an
orgasm. Your girl might flush red or begin to tremble. Get to know her symptoms
and you'll be a more sensitive lover.
When she starts to have an orgasm, for heaven's sakes, don't let go of that
clit. Hang in there for the duration. When she starts to come down from the
first orgasm, press your tongue along the underside of the clit, leaving your
lips covering the top. Move your tongue in and out of her cunt. If your fingers
are inside, move them a little too, gently though, things are extremely
sensitive just now.
If you play your cards right, you'll get some multiple orgasms this way. A woman
stays excited for a full hour after she's had an orgasm. Do you realize the full
impact of that information? The potential? One woman was clocked at 56 orgasms
at one sitting. Do you know what effect you would have on a woman you gave 56
orgasms too? She'd be yours as long as you wanted her.
The last advice I have for you is this: After you've made her come, made her
your slave by giving her the best head she's ever had, don't leave her alone
just yet. Talk to her, stroke her body, caress her breasts. Keep making love to
her quietly until she's come all the way down. A man can get off and go to sleep
in the same breath and feel no remorse, no sense of loss. But a woman by nature
requires some sensitivity from her lover in those first few moments after sex.
Oral sex can be the most exciting sexual experiences you can have. But it's what
you make it. Take your time, practice often, pay attention to your lover's
signals, and most of all, enjoy yourself.